Feeling older ages your body and your brain faster

“You’re only as old as you feel.” Surely, you’ve heard this expression.

Well, as it turns out, there may very well be a lot of truth to the saying.

Have you ever found yourself saying, “God, I feel so OLD!” when you realize that a friend’s ‘baby’ is now in college, or when other things bring you up short and remind you of the passage of time?

I know I have. But it’s a response I’m going to hold my tongue on, from here on out.

Research is indicating that feeling older can actually make your body and brain age faster!

And that’s not the outcome we’re looking for.

After all, why speed things up, when a little attitude adjustment can slow them down?

Age is a mindset, not a number

Subjective age is the term used for that number you give when someone asks, “How old do you feel?”

Most often, we’re thinking of our physical abilities when we answer that question. For example, some 70-year-olds feel a lot older, while others still think of themselves as physically independent and capable.

I can give you an example. I am 63, within shouting distance of 70. But I hardly think of 70 as “old.” Even after a recent health scare and hospital stay, people are continually surprised at my quick recovery.

I attribute it entirely to the way I think of myself in the age continuum. While I know that my balance is poorer than it used to be, for example, and that I probably need to be more careful, I don’t connect this with “old.”

If someone were to ask me how old I felt, I’d probably say 63, which is how old I am. But I’m OK with how I am at this age.

And that‘s the sort of thinking that research says can not only prevent physical disabilities and ailments but can even protect against future dementia and Alzheimer’s.

How we think about age affects health and lifespan

In 1969, Dr. Robert Butler coined the term “ageism,” and defined it as a “process of systematic stereotyping or discrimination against people because they are old, just as racism and sexism accomplish with skin color and gender.”

Now, research is telling us that ageism can be tuned in on ourselves and that it has unpleasant consequences for our health and well-being…

Dr. Becca Levy of the Yale School of Public Health wanted to find out if older people with positive age stereotypes would be more likely to recover from a disability than those with negative age stereotypes.

She defined “recovery” as renewed ability in four activities of daily living: bathing, dressing, transferring and walking.

Among the 598 participants, all age 70 or older, those with positive age stereotypes were 44 percent more likely to fully recover from severe disability than those with negative ideas about aging.

Not only that, but data from three large studies found up to a 25 percent higher mortality risk among people who felt a little more than a decade older than their actual age!

How old you feel can determine your Alzheimer’s risk

Just two years before the Yale study, scientists from Yale University and the Gerontology Research Center at the National Institute on Aging wanted to find out if having negative age stereotypes affected brain changes associated with Alzheimer’s disease.

Their subjects were participants in the Baltimore Longitudinal Study of Aging, one of the world’s longest-running studies.

In short, people with more negative age stereotypes early in life were found to lose more volume in the hippocampus of the brain, where short-term memories are stored.

They also had significantly more neurofibrillary tangles and amyloid plaques, the hallmark brain changes of Alzheimer’s disease.

This suggests that changing our attitudes about aging could very well protect us from one of the most feared consequences of age!

How you should view your age

It seems to me that, rather than “how old do you feel?”, the question ought to be, “How do you feel about the number you are?”

Here are eight things you can do to “feel younger,” whatever your age…

  1. Eat breakfast. A good balance of fiber, protein, fats and whole grains will set you up for a day full of energy.
  2. Improve your flexibility and core strength. Pilates and yoga are two disciplines that are gentle enough for anyone to try.
  3. Deal with anxiety. Worrying about the future just robs you of energy for the present. Talk to a friend, or a therapist if needed.
  4. De-clutter your home. Letting go of unused items can be unbelievably freeing, and can literally “lighten” you. Start by putting items in question in a box. If you don’t use them within a few months, donate them so someone else can have them.
  5. Get in tune with nature. A walk in the park or an easy hike in the woods can lower your blood pressure and decrease stress.
  6. Volunteer. Finding ways to contribute to others can give you a sense of meaning and satisfaction. Living life with purpose can enliven you in other areas of your life.
  7. Curate your “mental diet.” Choose carefully the people you spend time with, the books you read and the movies you watch. Avoid negative and cynical input in favor of positive, kind people and emotions.
  8. Act young again. What did you love doing as a kid? Jumping in leaves? Going out for ice cream? For me, it was riding a carousel. I automatically feel lighter and happier when I can do that! Find a way to do those things again.

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  1. 33 Ways to Feel 10 Years Younger — Wise Bread
  2. A culture-brain link: Negative age stereotypes predict Alzheimer’s disease biomarkersPsychology and Aging
  3. You’re Only as Old as You FeelThe New York Times
  4. Association Between Positive Age Stereotypes and Recovery From Disability in Older PersonsJAMA
  5. Subjective Age and Mortality in Three Longitudinal SamplesPsychosomatic Medicine
  6. A valuable data resource: Baltimore Longitudinal Study of Aging — National Institute on Aging
  7. Ageism: A ‘Prevalent and Insidious’ Health ThreatThe New York Times 


Joyce Hollman

By Joyce Hollman

Joyce Hollman is a writer based in Kennebunk, Maine, specializing in the medical/healthcare and natural/alternative health space. Health challenges of her own led Joyce on a journey to discover ways to feel better through organic living, utilizing natural health strategies. Now, practicing yoga and meditation, and working towards living in a chemical-free home, her experiences make her the perfect conduit to help others live and feel better naturally.